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Katie Kitchen's avatar

Curmudgeon conversation could be its own Substack 💟

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Brian F.'s avatar

It's funny what Jeff says about the meet-and-greet, because I had the exact same experience recently, but from the other side of the fan-artist relationship. I went to see Josh Rouse (whom I first became a fan of when he opened for Wilco back in '98 or '99 in support of his first album) at a very small venue (about 150 seats). After the show, he came out to chat with folks. He lives in Spain and doesn't tour in the U.S. very often, so it would be a rare opportunity to say hello (and I've never met him or interacted with him in any context). But, as I stood there, watching him have conversations with other people and waiting for my turn, and trying to think of what to say, it felt incredibly awkward and eventually I just left.

It was probably for the best because the most interesting thing I thought I might bring up was to tell him that I played one of his songs at my cat's funeral. I figure he probably gets people telling him every week that they played one of his songs at their wedding or some other festive event, but it's probably only a few times a year that he hears that his song was part of the program at a cat's funeral, so he might think it was weird.

For the record, no Wilco was played at either of my cats' funerals, although "Hate It Here" did make me cry the first time I listened to it after the first cat died.

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